15 Tips For A Stress Free Wedding Day In 2025
A wedding day is full of excitement…but it can also come with a lot of unwanted stress.
I’ve put together 15 tips for a stress free wedding day to help you relax and truly enjoy your special day.
Enjoy!
1. Create a Wedding Day Timeline
A clear timeline helps keep everyone on track. It’s a great way to make sure nothing gets forgotten.
- Include times for getting ready, photos, and the ceremony.
- Share the timeline with your bridal party and vendors.
- Leave some buffer time for unexpected delays.
2. Pack an Emergency Kit
A wedding day emergency kit can be a lifesaver. It’s perfect for handling little mishaps.
- Include items like a mini sewing kit, safety pins, tissues, and snacks.
- Don’t forget things like pain relievers and a stain remover pen.
- Keep it with the wedding party the entire day.
- Ask a bridesmaid to hold onto it during the day and make sure that it goes with the group.
Related blog post: Must have wedding day items to include in your emergency kit
3. Have a Backup Plan in Case of Bad Weather
Weather can be unpredictable, especially for outdoor weddings. A backup plan keeps you ready for anything.
- Rent a tent or choose a venue with indoor and outdoor options.
- Make sure you have umbrellas for you and your guests.
- Talk to your vendors about what happens if it rains (especially your venue and photographer).
4. Choose Comfortable Shoes
You’ll be on your feet all day, so comfort is key. Choose shoes that won’t leave you limping.
- Break them in a few weeks before the wedding.
- Consider wearing flats or comfortable shoes for the reception.
- Keep a backup pair of comfy shoes just in case.
5. Delegate Tasks to Your Wedding Party or Family
You don’t have to do it all. Hand off smaller tasks to your bridal party or family to lighten the load.
- Assign someone to handle last-minute details.
- Ask a trusted friend to check in with vendors.
- Let your bridesmaids take care of any guest concerns.
6. Do a Hair and Makeup Trial
A trial run helps you feel confident on your wedding day. It’s the best way to know exactly what you want.
- Schedule a trial at least a month before the wedding.
- Bring photos of styles you like to share with your stylist.
- Don’t be afraid to ask for adjustments during the trial.
7. Eat a Good Breakfast
Start your day with a filling and nutritious breakfast. It will keep your energy up for the rest of the day.
- Choose foods that are easy on the stomach, like oatmeal or eggs.
- Avoid heavy or greasy foods that might make you feel bloated.
- Don’t skip meals even if you’re nervous!
- Ask your wedding party to remind you to eat food and drink water.
8. Limit Your Phone Time
Your wedding day should be about enjoying the moment. Avoid getting caught up in texts and notifications.
- Turn off notifications or put your phone on “Do Not Disturb.”
- Assign a friend to handle any urgent phone calls.
- Focus on soaking in every moment of the day.
9. Do a “First Look” with Your Partner
A “first look” gives you a private moment together before the ceremony. It’s a great way to calm your nerves.
- It’s a chance to share an emotional moment alone.
- You’ll also get extra photos that capture the anticipation.
- It can help you both relax before the big event.
- You’ll get to enjoy cocktail hour with your friends and family.
10. Practice Walking in Your Dress
If your dress is long or has a train, practice walking in it. It will help you move with confidence.
- Practice in the shoes you’ll wear on the day.
- Try walking up and down stairs and sitting down.
- Do a test run with your bridal bouquet in hand (or a fake bouquet).
11. Hire a Day-Of Coordinator
A day-of coordinator keeps everything running smoothly. They’ll handle the details so you can relax.
- Many coordinators offer affordable packages for just the day.
- They can manage vendors, timing, and any last-minute changes.
- It’s a small-ish investment that can save a lot of stress.
12. Schedule Time to Breathe
Take small breaks throughout the day to relax. A few quiet moments can make a huge difference.
- Step outside for fresh air during the reception.
- Take a minute with your partner to soak in the day.
- Use breathing exercises if you start to feel overwhelmed.
13. Make a “No Drama” Pact
Avoid drama by setting boundaries beforehand. A little planning goes a long way in keeping the peace.
- Remind family and friends that the day is about joy, not stress.
- Avoid inviting people who might cause tension.
- Ask your bridal party to help keep things positive.
14. Have a “Plan B” for Hair and Makeup
Unexpected things can happen, so have a backup plan. Being prepared will keep you calm no matter what.
- Bring extra hairpins, a small mirror, and touch-up makeup.
- Know a simple hairstyle you can do yourself if needed.
- Keep tissues and makeup remover for quick fixes.
15. Enjoy the Moment!
The most important thing is to have fun and enjoy the day. It goes by quickly, so make the most of it!
- Don’t worry if small things go wrong…most guests won’t notice.
- Focus on the love and celebration, not the details.
- Take mental snapshots throughout the day to remember it forever.
Final Thoughts
A stress-free wedding day is all about preparation and taking time to enjoy the moment. Use these tips to make your wedding day one to remember for all the right reasons!
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